Love should not be “hard work” as a relationship. The best way is that we constantly have to do something to make life easier for each other, every day. If only one person does this, then this relationship will be “hard work”.
We often forget to love ourselves first in pursuit to love & to be loved.
They just need someone to love them to death, and not to disappoint them all the time! Freedom of speech, without fear of prosecution, more sunshine, cheaper rent, better paid jobs, and more women than men in power! They need hope!